Categories
Uncategorized

Do You Believe In Fairy Tales?

Can you find love online? Somebody will say yes, but personally I don’t believe that I can find love online. I got to know on newspaper or some kind of social media that a girl or a boy had a romantic relationship thanks to dating apps, and they ended up getting married each other and had a happy life. But I think that only happens once in blue moon. However, dating online may be an interesting experience if you have enough awareness to keep yourself from being fleeced. 

I prefer spending time to enjoy some activities that my partner and I are interested in to looking at the screen to chat with a person that you have never seen for hours. When you get to know somebody online, you only know what they want you to know but not their real person. Sometimes they only love the image that their partner online creates, then end up being depressed after meeting each other in real life because he or she doesn’t match their ideal person.

I just remembered an unforgettable experience that happened a long time ago, when Online Role-Playing Game was very popular in Vietnam, everybody played and made a lot of friends via game, a female account would find a male account to get married and vice versa. They tried to build a very good relationship then they could fulfill their duties in game or kill monster together to upgrade their levels or earn money in game. They usually had a very romantic in games so they decided to meet each other face to face. You know what, my friend is a boy and the other one is a boy too but he used a female account, he used a lot of money to buy clothes and stuff for that person in game. When he got to know that he had a romantic relationship with a boy, he felt like he was cheated and very upset. At that time it was a sad story but now it’s a funny story for me to tease him.

Meeting someone through a friend, through school or work, or even through a social organization or church gives you a chance to have an overall background of the person that you will go on a date, it prevents you from being cheated or stolen private information. I usually focus on little things that seem to be not important but I think they say a lot about a person. That how a person reacts to a certain situation or treats other people reflects their genuine one. 

Everybody reads fairy tales but nobody believes in them.

6 replies on “Do You Believe In Fairy Tales?”

Your story makes me remember that my friend and I had the same experience in-game too, but we were laughing instead. Sometimes I remind him about that when we chat, and we are still laughing about that until now.

Liked by 1 person

Hi Nina- I really liked your story- I feel bad for your friend though. That must have been so disappointing for him to think that maybe he found the love of his life, and it ended up being another boy. This is a good example of what can happen in online dating though. People are sometimes not what they present themselves to be.

Liked by 1 person

Leave a reply to dieptt Cancel reply

Design a site like this with WordPress.com
Get started